Before getting pregnant with our son Everett, there was only one thing my husband and I loved more than each other: sleep. When we got pregnant, I realized quickly due to frequent bathroom trips in the middle of the night that our sleeping habits were about to change drastically. In a proactive effort to try to regain our sleep as quickly as possible, I picked up a copy of Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child, on recommendation from Jenn at BabyZzz. I quickly immersed myself in the world of child sleep basics, and flagged the most important pages of the book for my husband to read (secretly knowing he never would).
Everett was born 8 weeks early, so for preemies like him, developmental milestones such as walking, talking and even sleep habits are measured from his due date instead of his birthdate. From the book, I was able to figure out that at six weeks from Everett’s due date, I needed to start ensuring Everett was napping properly. By properly, I mean ensuring he was back in his bed within 1-2 hours of wakefulness.
However, at 4 weeks past Everett’s due date, he suddenly became the most fussy baby I’ve ever been around. From 12 p.m. to his bedtime, Everett was pretty much inconsolable. I kept thinking ‘He’s just really gassy. It must be something I’ve eaten.” Then, after five days of this behaviour, I realized it: Everett stopped sleeping during the day. He used to fall asleep on his own, anywhere, and slept “like a baby”. He was sleeping so often I was actually a little bored. And all of a sudden, he just stopped. It happened around the time he started social smiling, two weeks earlier than expected.
At this stage Jenn recommended I start doing these simple things to help my little boy sleep:
Today, at 7 weeks from Everett’s due date, I try to ensure Everett gets his naps regularly. Some days I have visitors or activities planned which interfere with Everett’s sleep. On these days, I try to ensure the naps he gets are longer, or try to put him to bed a little earlier. Sometimes it goes well, and sometimes I fail miserably.
The most common struggles I have are as follows:
Since making these changes to our routine and respecting Everett’s need to sleep, I can honestly say he’s a happier, healthier and more alert baby. On days we get sleep right, both Everett and I are our happiest with each other: we enjoy each other’s company more, we smile more, and our love for each other is able to grow without frustration or impatience.
Sometimes it feels like his sleep schedule is in charge of our day, but then I think – I’m on maternity leave to ensure Everett gets his best start at life and part of that is ensuring he is well rested so that he can learn and grow to the best of his abilities. It’s my responsibility as his mommy to help him get the sleep he needs.
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